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To See or Not To See Each Other Before the Ceremony?

More couples are opting to see each other before the Ceremony if  time between the Ceremony and Reception is short.   That allows the Wedding Party to go around town for photos at leisure before the Ceremony.  Then you need to take fewer photos of the Wedding Party and Family at the Ceremony site and you can join the cocktail party sooner.  You can still have that special moment with your groom by having your wedding planner and photographer stage a “first look” moment.  Choose a special setting, maybe the hotel where you’re getting ready.  The groom would be positioned so he can’t see you approach.  And, when you’re ready, he would be told to turn around.  You’ll get that wonderful “first look” moment and the photographer and videographer can catch the moment, too.  Many brides and grooms find that the “first sighting” actually gives them more time together for that special private moment than at the altar.  And, it makes for fabulous photos.  Wonderful idea to give you more time after the Ceremony for greeting guests and enjoying yourselves.

Jamie and Bill’s St. Louis Wedding at the Hilton St. Louis Ballpark

Jamie & Bill at their Downtown St. Louis Wedding

Jamie & Bill

For their September St. Louis Wedding, Jamie & Brian chose the Hilton Ballpark Hotel for both their Ceremony and Reception, as well as their base hotel for their many out-of-town guests.  The large group of college friends and family made for a very festive celebration throughout the Labor Day Weekend.  The Catholic Ceremony was held in the Arch View Foyer with scenic views of the Old Court House and Kiener Plaza.  Cocktails were held in the adjacent Grand Foyer.  Guests were invited to sign a stone with a message for the Bride and Groom to cherish for years to come.  Pomegranate Martinis were the specialty drink during the cocktail hour. Custom imprinted fresh pink rose petals with the Bride and Groom’s names and date adorned the candlelight centerpieces. Once in the beautiful Arch View Ballroom, guests marveled at the gorgeous night views of the Old Court House, the Arch, and Keiner Plaza. Everyone enjoyed a champagne toast in their commemorative champagne flute favors.   And, everyone danced the night away.

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Anna & Tucker’s St. Louis Wedding at Windows Off Washington

Anna & Tucker at St. Louis Union Station

Anna & Tucker

So happy to be the Wedding Planner over Thanksgiving weekend for Anna & Tucker’s beautiful St. Louis Wedding … the last one at famed Windows Off Washington in the North Room. Fabulous couple, great families and friends … and what a party! Anna chose Peacock feathers and blue and green colors for her wedding theme.   Anna made her bouquet and all the bridesmaid’s bouquets out of cloth flowers with her grandmother’s jewelry in the center of each flower.  Gorgeous and sentimental.  The reception lighting in greens and gold was dramatic for the ceremony and reception.  Anna made wine bottle candles, cutting the glass bottom off the bottles.  Most of the family and guests came from out of town and stayed at the new Embassy Suites in downtown St. Louis.  After a rehearsal and cocktails at the Embassy Suites, the group enjoyed the rehearsal dinner and partied at The Thaxton.   The reception was a great celebration, especially the surprise flash mob dance created by about 40 of their friends and family.  A special performance.

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Photos by Patrick and Carol Pope 

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Kate & Don’s Fall St. Louis Wedding at Christ’s Church Cathedral and The Christy South

Kate & Don at The St. Louis Arch

Kate & Don at The St. Louis Arch


I was so honored to be the Wedding Planner for Kate and Don’s Fall St. Louis Wedding.  We had such a wonderful time with Kate and her fabulous Aunt Cathy.  Beautiful couple, fabulous family and fun friends!  The Ceremony was held at the beautiful Christ’s Church Cathedral in Downtown St. Louis, MO.  The bridesmaids all wore various shades of lavender and purple with coordinating bouquets.  The Reception was at The Christy in South St. Louis and the decor was bling!  Beautiful lit crystal vases and votives.  It  was a joyous celebration with loving family and friends!  See all their photos on their Gallery Page

Photos by Cary Klein Photography

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